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Parenting with Purpose: A Neurodiversity-Affirming Approach to Advocacy, ABA Therapy, & More

Despite the controversies surrounding ABA, I believe that neurodiversity-affirming care is whatever is best for each individual. In this post, I discuss the importance of finding the right therapy team, advocating for your child's needs, and trusting your instincts as a parent. As someone who has masked my neurodivergence for years, I am committed to ensuring my son doesn't have to do the same. I share insights on how ABA has benefited my son, Jake, and how we've navigated changes in his therapy and education. Ultimately, our goal is to provide Jake with the tools to thrive as an autistic adult, embracing his unique traits and abilities.

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Embracing Scribble: My ADHD Acceptance Story

I was diagnosed with ADHD when I was 10 years old. I fully accepted & understood what that meant at 36 years old. I spent 3 decades masking a big part of who I am. It wasn't until I accepted this that I was able to leverage my ADHD in all its beauty. Today I share signs and symptoms to look for and why so many women go misdiagnosed. I also provide resources for you to check out!

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Finding Balance: Navigating FOMO vs JOMO in your Marriage & Family Life

Today I discuss the delicate balance between the fear of missing out (FOMO) and the joy of missing out (JOMO) in marriage and family life. I share insights on setting boundaries, communicating with your partner, and aligning decisions with personal values to maintain balance and nurture their relationship.

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What Every Mom Needs To Hear After An Autism Diagnosis

A phrase used within the Maori people, Takiwatanga, translates to “my own time and space.”  Autistic children are seen to have a strong sense of wairua (a strong spirit), meaning they can strongly connect with a higher spiritual realm. This is what we need to be told when we receive an autism diagnosis— a message of hope and curiosity towards what is different. Instead we receive fear based strategies to “fix” the problem when there is nothing to change. Today I share a candid story about the waves I experience being an Autism mom & how comparison is a thief of joy. I also provide instagram, podcast, and book resources for you to leverage & to remind yourself you’re not alone.

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The Silent Struggle: Depression Among Successful Women

Depression isn’t always apparent. It can be even harder to detect in high-achieving women. I have experienced depressive episodes since I was a teenager while going about my daily life. On the outside, I may seem cheerful and happy, but on the inside, I sometimes battle a darker side. High-functioning depression/anxiety is not a formal diagnosis and can present itself among other disorders such as ADHD and PMDD. Hormonal fluctuations, chemical imbalances, and autoimmune disorders are also linked to depression. Today’s blog post showcases what my experience with this mood disorder looks like and the steps that you can take to not only identify it in yourself but also find ways to support yourself while experiencing it.

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Feeling Like a Bad Mom? Here Are 8 Ways To Repair With Yourself

Mom life is hard. In my opinion pressure on moms is at an all time high. Constant messages bombarding us to be better and give more. With the idea of perfect top of mind we often reprimand ourselves for being imperfect mothers. Here are 8 ways I repair with myself and release mom guilt.

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Hi, I’m Nikki. I’m An Autism Mom.

Hi, I’m Nikki. I’m an Autism mom. A sentence I never thought I’d say and a sentence that has transformed me more than I could have ever imagined. My son is Autistic. And it’s not a death sentence. If anything, it’s a life sentence. An opportunity to see the beauty of the human experience. April is Autism Acceptance Month. My hope with time is that it becomes a norm… not a month to celebrate but an every day experience.

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It Takes Two: Welcome To The Over Dinner Podcast

What started out as conversations over dinner ended up becoming much more. In our podcast, Over Dinner, we share ourselves, our “mess”, our learnings, and also give advice based on our own experiences.and all that comes with being a married couple with children.

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Social Media Isn’t Real So Here’s How I Really Feel About Turning 36

Feel weird on your birthday? You’re not alone. Birthdays hold a lot of pressure as we often are reflective of where we are in life and where we thought we might be. Beyond 36 life lessons that I’ve learned this past year I share why birthdays might not always feel as joyful as one can hope and how to celebrate yourself just as you are.

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