EP 17 To Three or Not to Three: Our Journey to Decide on a Third Child
Summary
In this conversation, Jarrod and Dr. Nikki discuss their decision on whether or not to have a third child. They explore various factors such as financials, capacity, mental health, and career aspirations. They both express their conflicting feelings and the back-and-forth nature of their decision-making process. Ultimately, they lean towards not having a third child, but acknowledge the complexity and importance of the decision.
Takeaways
The decision to have a third child is complex and involves considering various factors such as financials, capacity, mental health, and career aspirations.
Intuition plays a role in the decision-making process, and if you are on the fence about having another child, it is likely a no.
Having open and honest conversations with your partner about your desires and concerns is crucial in making a decision about expanding your family.
Regret and the fear of missing out on experiences with another child are common emotions when deciding whether or not to have a third child.
It is important to consider the potential challenges and risks that come with having another child, such as health complications and the impact on existing children.
The decision to have a third child is deeply personal and unique to each individual and couple.
Chapters
00:00 Envisioning the Number of Children
04:56 The Importance of Siblings and Family Dynamics
06:44 The Ongoing Decision: To Have a Third Child or Not
11:35 Factors to Consider: Financials, Capacity, and Energy Levels
14:20 Considering the Risks and Complications of Another Pregnancy
21:30 Exploring Other Options: Getting a New Dog
23:36 Avoiding the Real World and Personal Growth
27:24 The Importance of Open and Honest Communication
32:47 The Complexity of the Decision and Regrets